It matters who you’re planning to marry in Stardew Valley. It can impact your gameplay experience in the slightest. In this guide, we’ll rank every potential best wife in-game and determine who’s the best!
Stardew Valley is a casual game with several real-life simulations like marriage. It allows players to experience romance with their pixelated love interest. Indeed, life has no meaning when you live farming alone forever.
As a newcomer to the strange lands of Pelican Town, you’ll meet different types of people. Some are snobbish, while others are fragile, but their kindness is beyond what you could wish for. But you’re searching for that one lady. A fragrant flower that you want to bloom with.
With six bachelorettes in Stardew Valley, it’s unsurprisingly hard to pick one. Of course, Haley or Abigail would be the final choice if you’re all for the looks. But looking at their background story and personality is what we’re doing with this guide. After all, beauty sparks well on the inside.
Note: Before marrying a bachelorette, give her a Bouquet. Upon reaching ten hearts, you can propose to them with a Mermaid's Pendant. You can get the item on rainy days from the Old Mariner. Divorce is possible via the Mayor's Manor for 50,000g. There are different benefits to marriage, one of which is daily gifts listed per wife. All of them are helpful in general.
6. Haley
Loves | Best Films | Favorite Snacks | When Married, Daily Gift |
Coconut | Cappuccino Mousse Cake | Bean Hotpot | |
Fruit Salad | Stardrop Sorbet | Blueberry Tart | |
Pink Cake | BreadChowder | ||
Sunflower | Cookie | ||
Eggplant Parmesan | |||
Fried Egg | |||
Hashbrowns | |||
Maple Bar | |||
Omelet | |||
Pancakes | |||
Parsnip Soup | |||
Poppyseed Muffin |
Many male Stardew Valley newbies seem attracted to Haley. As they describe, she’s the perfect life-long partner. When asked why they’ll usually mention her looks and how Haley’s hair color makes her more stunning. The only downside is that she’s an attitude.
Haley is by far the villager with so many simps from the community. Disregarding her initial negative thoughts toward the player is something worthy of attention. Maybe because it’s just a game? Or a reflection of their character? Unfortunately, we don’t have an answer.
On the flip side, Haley is easy to get along with. A few flowers and sweet treats, and you’ll have her as a decent wife. As a cherry on top, she’ll even have character development in the late game. But doesn’t it make more sense if Haley’s kind-hearted from the beginning?
She may be the most romantic, but Haley deserves the 6th spot because personality is a huge factor. Looks-wise? No more arguments.
5. Maru
Loves | Best Films | Favorite Snacks | When Married, Daily Gift |
Battery Pack | Natural Wonders: Exploring Our Vibrant World | Star Cookie | Blueberry Tart |
Cauliflower | Wumbus | Stardrop Sorbet | Bomb |
Cheese Cauliflower | Cherry Bomb | ||
Diamond | Chocolate Cake | ||
Gold Bar | Cookies | ||
Iridium Bar | Crab Cake | ||
Miner’s Treat | Fried Mushroom | ||
Pepper Poppers | Gate | ||
Radioactive Bar | Quality Fertilizer | ||
Rhubarb Pie | Refined Quartz | ||
Strawberry | Rice Pudding | ||
Warp Totem: Farm |
For nerdy guys like us, having Maru as a wife candidate in Stardew Valley is ideal. It’s a rare chance to find a virtual character that matches a personality – especially if you’re a science enthusiast.
From most candidates, Maru’s heart scenes might be the most serious (and sometimes funny and entertaining, thanks, Demetrius). It’s the stark opposite of Haley’s, full of extremely high doses of dopamine and serotonin. But going further, it’ll be deeper and much more romantic if not for the delays.
Character-wise, Maru has a likable chill trait that most villagers don’t usually possess. Her impact in Pelican Town is similar to Harvey’s, as they run the Town Clinic. Also, please don’t worry about marrying her as she’ll still find time to care for sick villagers. The only issue, though, is her mentioning MarILDA the robot (you’re better, don’t worry).
4. Emily
Loves | Best Films | Favorite Snacks | When Married, Daily Gift |
Amethyst | The Miracle at Coldstar Ranch | Kale Smoothie | Bean Hotpot |
Aquamarine | Stardrop Sorbet | Blueberry Tart | |
Cloth | Chocolate Cake | ||
Emerald | Cloth | ||
Jade | Coffee | ||
Ruby | Cookie | ||
Survival Burger | Duck Feather | ||
Topaz | Omni Geode | ||
Wool | Refined Quartz | ||
Rice Pudding | |||
Wool |
Half of the community thinks Emily is weird, while the other portion sees her as an individual full of life. She’s much better than Haley (her sister) in terms of character, although most simps would prefer the latter.
Speaking of cutscenes, you might start questioning your existence. Are you truly walking in Pelican Town or a dream slave? Kidding aside, Emily has otherworldly scenes that won’t make sense initially. However, further progress will put the pieces together, and everything will be clear. She loves Parrots, not you.
Emily may be the best girl friend in Stardew Valley, as Gus seems to love her company in Stardrop Saloon. However, the character arc is already established as opposed to Haley’s. Nonetheless, Emily is preferable if you want to experience a unique life perspective in-game and her crafts.
3. Leah
Loves | Best Films | Favorite Snacks | When Married, Daily Gift |
Goat Cheese | Mysterium | Panzanella Salad | Cactus Fruit |
Poppyseed Muffin | Stardrop Sorbet | Chanterelle | |
Salad | Coffee | ||
Stir Fry | Common Mushroom | ||
Truffle | Daffodil | ||
Vegetable Medley | Dandelion | ||
Wine | Fiddlehead Fern | ||
Leek | |||
Morel | |||
Red Mushroom | |||
SaladWine | |||
Spice Berry | |||
Sweet Pea | |||
Wild Horseradish |
When it comes to romancing Leah, everything takes time. Her cutscenes regarding Kel – her previous lover- backed up that fact. To escape the old life, she sought Stardew Valley, living as an artist.
Interaction-wise, Leah may have been the most ambitious, making her attractive as she always thinks outside the box. Moreover, her words are extremely neutral. She might be a great healer if Stardew Valley is an MMORPG game.
Marrying Leah is doable in the first season since she accepts Salad that you can buy from the Stardrop Saloon. However, knowing her schedule is important as she wouldn’t let anyone enter her Cabin.
2. Penny
Loves | Best Films | Favorite Snacks | When Married, Daily Gift |
Diamond | The Brave Little Sapling | Cotton Candy | Carp Surprise |
Emerald | Stardrop Sorbet | Crispy Bass | |
Melon | Egg | ||
Poppy | Fried Eel | ||
Poppyseed Muffin | Geode | ||
Red Plate | Hashbrowns | ||
Roots Platter | Large Milk | ||
Sandfish | Mixed Seeds | ||
Tom Kha Soup | Omelet | ||
Pancakes | |||
Salmon Dinner | |||
Vegetable Medley |
Penny deserves more. Her already-small world is on a constant and tedious cycle of cleaning up her alcoholic mother’s mess. It’s a shame that Pam even lost her job, although she’s shown her love and care to her daughter. But still, Penny should’ve had more opportunities for a better life.
Does making Penny your wife create better life opportunities or more headaches? Well, it depends. At your gameplay’s peak, fixing the Bus will give her mother’s job back, while purchasing the Community Upgrade will reward them with better housing.
Character-wise, Penny is sweet, softhearted, and intelligent. She’s a great tutor to Jas and Vincent (and Leo in the endgame). Even better, marrying her won’t stop her teaching passion.
The transition from being friends into a deeper relationship is smooth regarding cutscenes. Moreover, she places second for the most romantic cutscenes in Stardew Valley, making her the best wife.
1. Abigail
Loves | Best Films | Favorite Snacks | When Married, Daily Gift |
Amethyst | It Howls In The Rain | Rock Candy | Amethyst |
Banana Pudding | Mysterium | Stardrop Sorbet | Bat Wing |
Blackberry Cobbler | Bomb | ||
Chocolate Cake | Cherry Bomb | ||
Pufferfish | Chowder | ||
Pumpkin | Crab Cakes | ||
Spicy Eel | Fire Quartz | ||
Fried Mushroom | |||
Lobster Bisque | |||
Parsnip Soup | |||
Solar Essence | |||
Tom Kha Soup | |||
Trout Soup | |||
Void Essence |
Since the game’s release, Abigail has been the best wife candidate for years. The purple-haired teenager is every man’s dream, as most community members thought. Aside from her iconic hair color are controversies surrounding her and her family.
For starters, Pierre and Caroline (sorry, no spoilers). As you progress, you’ll get to know Abigail’s unique charm, adventurous side, and some weird stuff. Despite all the drama in her life, she won’t give even the tiniest attention (also a bit rebellious).
There are several upsides to pursuing Abigail. Daily gifts are the most profitable, sweet and silly cutscenes, and more. For the downside? She thinks Amethyst is a Jawbreaker. Good luck dealing with that!