Have you met Sebastian in Stardew Valley? He’s neither a friendly nor rude bachelor, but he can be pretty interesting once your relationship deepens. To win his trust learn more about his gift preferences, schedule, and more!
Villagers in Pelican Town have varying personalities. And if you’ve ever come across a guy with deep blue hair, that’s Sebastian. He’s one of the 12 marriage candidates in town, and getting close to him can be challenging.
Nonetheless, this guide can help boost your friendship points with him and find his best-loved gifts together with his story!
Table of Contents
Who is Sebastian?
Sebastian resides at 24 Mountain Road (the Carpenter’s Shop) with his family. You’ll find his room in the basement of their home. Upon meeting him, he may seem like a rebellious loner who’s heavily invested in his work, computer games, and great sci-fi novels.
Here’s a heads up, he’s not the friendliest bachelor. But once you know him better, you’ll eventually discover more about his soft side.
Family and Relationships
He’s Robin’s son and Demetrius’ step-son. Unfortunately, he doesn’t have the best relationship with them, even with his half-sister, Maru. In some conversations, Sebastian indirectly hints at his jealousy towards her. Additionally, they don’t speak about his birth father, giving players no clue who he is.
Despite having a complicated bond with his family, he’s still good friends with Abigail and Sam. They belong to the same band, and you’ll often find them hanging out at the Saloon or Sam’s house in Stardew Valley.
Moreover, if you don’t invite Sebastian or Abigail to the Flower Dance Festival, they’ll dance with each other instead. Some dialogues with Maru and Sam also imply that he’s interested in Abigail. But if you marry Abigail, he’d stop considering her as a friend and say that his only companion is Sam.
Schedule
Sebastian has a busy schedule despite being introverted. Take note that he has an appointment with Harvey every Summer 4.
Anyhow, here’s his schedule for every season in Stardew Valley, alongside some deviations:
11th (<6 Hearts) or 15 (any Hearts)
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | Spending time in his bed. |
10:00 AM | Leaves his bed and goes to the computer. |
12:00 PM | Stands by the couch in his room. |
5:30 PM | Leaves the bedroom and heads to the kitchen. |
6:30 PM | Does something on his computer. |
9:30 PM | Goes to bed and rests. |
11th & 25th (Unlocked after earning 6+ Hearts)
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | Starts the day on his bed. |
10:30 AM | Goes to his computer after being on his bed.. |
3:00 PM | Leaves his computer and goes to the kitchen. |
3:30 PM | Goes to his room after being in the kitchen. |
4:10 PM | Uses his computer. |
6:30 PM | Exits their residence to smoke in the nearby lake. |
7:30 PM | Continues smoking near the lake. |
9:30 PM | Goes back to their home. |
Rainy day (Option #1)
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | Stays in bed. |
10:30 AM | Gets out of his room and leaves their house to visit the beach. |
1:30 PM | Stands at the end of the long pier located to the left of the Fish Shop. |
5:00 PM | Leaves the pier to go home. |
7:40 PM | Reaches his place and goes to sleep. |
Rainy day (Option #2)
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his bed. |
10:30 AM | Leaves the mattress and goes to his computer. |
3:00 PM | Exits their house to visit the Saloon. |
5:20 PM | Stays by the red sofa in the Saloon’s arcade. |
9:10 PM | Makes his way home. |
11:10 PM | Reaches home. |
Thursday (After unlocking the railroad)
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his bed. |
10:30 AM | Rises from the bed to use his computer. |
2:00 PM | Smokes at the train station after leaving the house. |
3:00 PM | Carries on smoking inside the station. |
6:20 PM | Standing close to the tunnel, facing east toward the train station |
8:10 PM | Walks and stops near the tunnel to the west of the station. |
9:30 PM | Takes off to go home |
10:20 PM | Arrives at his home |
Friday
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his bed. |
10:30 AM | Gets out of bed to use his computer. |
3:00 PM | Leaves his room to play pool with Sam in the Saloon. |
5:20 PM | Plays pool with Sam. |
9:10 PM | Walks his way home. |
11:10 PM | Arrives at his residence. |
Saturday
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | Leaves their place to go to Sam’s house. |
11:30 AM | Hangs out in front of Haley and Emily’s house with Sam. |
12:30 PM | Follows Sam’s steps to his bedroom. |
1:00 PM | Spends time in Sam’s room. |
6:00 PM | Leaves Sam’s place to visit the lake. |
6:20 PM | Smokes near the river with Sam. |
7:30 PM | Going home after spending time in front of Sam’s place. |
9:40 PM | Reaches home. |
Regular Schedule
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his bedroom’s mattress. |
10:30 AM | Gets out of bed and proceeds to use his computer. |
3:00 PM | Stops using his computer and makes his way to the kitchen. |
3:30 PM | Enters his room after going to the kitchen. |
4:10 PM | On his computer. |
6:30 PM | He leaves his house and walks over to the lake next to it to smoke. |
7:30 PM | Proceeds to smoke by the lake near his house. |
9:30 PM | Goes back inside the household |
Summer
Summer 4
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | Next to a bookcase in his room. |
10:00 AM | Departing from the clinic from home. |
11:50 AM | in the waiting area of the clinic. |
1:40 PM | In the examination room of the clinic. |
4:00 PM | Goes home. |
6:00 PM | Arrives at his room and goes to sleep. |
11th (Occurs if you have <6 Hearts with Sebastian) and 15th (Any hearts)
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his bedroom’s mattress. |
10:00 AM | Walks to his computer after getting out of bed. |
12:00 PM | Stands in his room close to the couch. |
5:30 PM | Leaves his room to spend time in the kitchen. |
6:30 PM | On his computer. |
9:30 PM | Goes to bed. |
11th & 25th (Encountered at 6+ Hearts)
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his bed. |
10:30 AM | Steps out of bed and walks toward his computer. |
3:00 PM | Heads to the kitchen after turning off his computer. |
3:30 PM | Returns to his room after leaving the kitchen. |
4:10 PM | On his computer. |
6:30 PM | Leaves his residence and strolls to the nearby lake to smoke. |
7:30 PM | Smoking next to the lake where his home is. |
9:30 PM | Returns to his home. |
Rainy Day (Option #1)
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his bed. |
10:30 AM | Exits the house and gets out of bed to go to the beach. |
1:30 PM | Stands to the left of Willy’s Fish Shop at the end of a long pier. |
5:00 PM | Departs for home from the pier. |
7:40 PM | Goes to bed after getting home. |
Rainy Day (Option #2)
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his mattress. |
10:30 AM | Gets out of bed and strolls to his computer. |
3:00 PM | Goes outside to hang out at the Saloon. |
5:20 PM | Standing behind a red sofa in the saloon’s arcade. |
9:10 PM | Leaves for home. |
11:10 PM | Returns home. |
Thursday (After opening the Railroad)
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his bed. |
10:30 AM | Goes to his computer after leaving his bed. |
2:00 PM | Departs from home to smoke near the train station. |
3:00 PM | At the train station, smoking. |
6:20 PM | Stands beside the tunnel, east of the train station. |
8:10 PM | Stands close to the tunnel, west of the train station. |
9:30 PM | Head home. |
10:20 PM | Goes back to his house. |
Friday
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his bed. |
10:30 AM | Spends some time in bed before going to his computer. |
3:00 PM | Departs from his room to join Sam at the saloon to play pool. |
5:20 PM | He plays pool with Sam in the saloon. |
9:10 PM | Goes home. |
11:10 PM | Reaches his house. |
Saturday
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | Departs from home to visit Sam’s home. |
11:30 AM | With Sam in front of Haley and Emily’s home. |
12:30 PM | Go to Sam’s room after him. |
1:00 PM | Inside Sam’s room. |
6:00 PM | Heads to the river after leaving Sam’s home with Sam. |
6:20 PM | Smokes by the river near Sam’s house alongside his friend. |
7:30 PM | Leaving Sam’s place and heading home. |
9:40 PM | Returns to his home. |
Regular Schedule
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his bed. |
10:30 AM | Walks to his computer after getting out of bed. |
3:00 PM | Heads to the kitchen after turning off his computer. |
3:30 PM | Returns to his room after leaving the kitchen. |
4:10 PM | On his computer. |
6:30 PM | Leaves the house and strolls to the lake adjacent to it to smoke. |
7:30 PM | Smoking beside the lake where his house was. |
9:30 PM | Returns to his home. |
Fall
11th (Occurs if you have <6 Hearts with him) and 15th (Any hearts)
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his bed. |
10:00 AM | Gets out of bed and walks to his computer. |
12:00 PM | Stands by the couch in his room. |
5:30 PM | Leaves his room and heads to the kitchen. |
6:00 PM | Exits the kitchen to go back to his space. |
6:30 PM | On his computer. |
9:30 PM | Goes to bed. |
11th & 25th
You’ll encounter this schedule after earning six Friendship Hearts with him and when it’s raining.
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his bed. |
10:30 AM | He rises from his bed and makes his way to the computer. |
3:00 PM | Heads to the kitchen after turning off his computer. |
3:30 PM | Returns to his room after leaving the kitchen. |
4:10 PM | On his desktop computer. |
6:30 PM | Leaves the house and strolls to the lake adjacent to it to smoke. |
7:30 PM | Smoking by the lake next to his house. |
9:30 PM | Goes back to his house. |
Rainy day (Option #1)
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his bed. |
10:30 AM | Gets out of the mattress and leaves the house to visit the beach. |
1:30 PM | Standing at the end of the long pier found on the left of the fish shop. |
5:00 PM | Departs from the pier and goes home. |
7:40 PM | Comes home and takes a rest. |
Rainy day (Option #2)
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his bed. |
10:30 AM | Rises from the mattress and moves to the computer. |
3:00 PM | Exits the house to go to the Saloon. |
5:20 PM | Stands by the red sofa in the arcade of the Saloon. |
9:10 PM | Takes a walk back to his place. |
11:10 PM | Reaches to their household. |
Thursday (Only encountered after getting access to the Railroad)
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his bed. |
10:30 AM | Gets out of the mattress and transfers himself to his computer. |
2:00 PM | Makes plans of smoking in the nearby station after leaving the house. |
3:00 PM | Begins to smoke at the station. |
6:20 PM | Stays at the eastern side of the station close to the tunnel. |
8:10 PM | Stands west of the station near the tunnel. |
9:30 PM | Heads to his place. |
10:20 PM | Arrives at their residence. |
Friday
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his mattress. |
10:30 AM | Gets out of the mattress and shifts to his computer. |
3:00 PM | Leaves his space to go enjoy a game of pool with Sam in the Saloon. |
5:20 PM | Continues playing the game with Sam. |
9:10 PM | Heads back to their house. |
11:10 PM | Gets home successfully. |
Saturday
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | Goes off to Sam’s place. |
11:30 AM | Passes time in front of Haley and Emily’s house with Sam. |
12:30 PM | Walks to Sam’s room. |
1:00 PM | Hangs out in his friend’s space. |
6:00 PM | Leaves the house with Sam. |
6:20 PM | Puffs cigarette in the river with Sam. |
7:30 PM | Makes his way home after departing from his friend’s house. |
9:40 PM | Arrives to their place. |
Regular Schedule
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his bed. |
10:30 AM | Gets out of the mattress and moves to his computer. |
12:00 PM | Leaves the house and takes a stroll to the lake close to his home. |
2:00 PM | Goes to the section of the lake outside the Mines opening. |
3:00 PM | Leaves the mining site’s entrance and heads to the other side of the lake. |
3:30 PM | Smokes at the edge of the lake near the bridge. |
4:00 PM | Returns home to his kitchen. |
5:30 PM | Leaves his kitchen. |
6:00 PM | On his computer. |
9:30 PM | Leaves his computer and goes to rest. |
Winter
Winter 16
Time | Location |
10:30 AM | Wakes up and goes to his computer. |
3:00 PM | Leaves the room and makes his way to the kitchen. |
3:40 PM | Enters his room and uses his computer |
5:00 PM | Leaves his home and attends the Night Market. |
11:30 PM | Leaves Market to go back to his place. |
11th (Occurs with than 6 hearts with Sebastian) and 15th (Any hearts)
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his mattress. |
10:00 AM | Rises from the bed and goes to his computer. |
12:00 PM | In his room, standing by the couch. |
5:30 PM | Leaving his room to go to the kitchen. |
6:30 PM | On his computer. |
9:30 PM | Goes to sleep. |
11th & 25th (Earned six or more hearts with Sebastian)
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his bed. |
10:30 AM | Gets off the mattress and shifts to his computer. |
3:00 PM | Leaves his computer and goes to the kitchen. |
3:30 PM | Exits the kitchen and enters his room. |
4:10 PM | On his computer. |
6:30 PM | Leaves home and walks to the lake nearby to smoke. |
7:30 PM | Smoking by the lake close to his house. |
9:30 PM | Goes back to his place. |
Rainy day (option #1)
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his mattress. |
10:30 AM | Leaves the house after getting out of bed to relax at the beach. |
1:30 PM | Stands at the end of the pier left to the Fish Shop. |
5:00 PM | Leaves the port to return home |
7:40 PM | Arrives home and goes to sleep. |
Rainy day (option #2)
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his bed. |
10:30 AM | Moves away from the bed to go to his computer |
3:00 PM | Leaves the house to relax at the Saloon. |
5:20 PM | Stands by the red sofa in the Saloon’s arcade. |
9:10 PM | Walks his way home. |
11:10 PM | Arrives at their residence. |
Thursday (Encountered after opening the Railroad)
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his bed. |
10:30 AM | Moves away from the bed to go to his computer. |
2:00 PM | Exits the household to smoke at the nearby train station. |
3:00 PM | Smoking by the station. |
6:20 PM | Standing at the eastern side of the train station, by the tunnel. |
8:10 PM | Standing to the western area of the train station, by a tunnel. |
9:30 PM | Heads back to his place. |
10:20 PM | Arrives home. |
Friday
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his bed. |
10:30 AM | Wakes up and marches to his computer. |
3:00 PM | He leaves his room to go play pool with Sam at the Saloon. |
5:20 PM | Plays pool with Sam. |
9:10 PM | Gets back to his house. |
11:10 PM | Arrives home. |
Saturday
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | Leaves their residence to keep company with Sam. |
11:30 AM | Spends time in front of Haley and Emily’s house with Sam. |
12:30 PM | Goes after Sam on his way to his room. |
1:00 PM | In Sam’s space. |
6:00 PM | Leaves Sam’s residence and goes to the river. |
6:20 PM | Together with Sam, he smokes nearby the river where his friend lives. |
7:30 PM | Goes home after departing from Sam’s place. |
9:40 PM | Gets home. |
Regular Schedule
Time | Location |
9:00 AM | In his bed. |
10:30 AM | Gets away from the bed to use the computer. |
3:00 PM | Leaves his computer and makes his way to the kitchen. |
3:30 PM | Goes back to his room after going to the kitchen.. |
4:10 PM | Spends time on his computer. |
6:30 PM | Leaves home to smoke outside. |
7:30 PM | Puffs smoke near his house.. |
9:30 PM | Come back to his residence. |
Marriage
Monday
Time | Location |
6:00 AM | At home. |
9:00 AM | Leaves home to go to the mountains. |
9:30 AM | Takes a stroll in the Town Square. |
10:30 AM | Gets to his old hang-out spot at the mountain lake. |
1:00 PM | Leaves the Farm to visit Robin. |
5:20 PM | Leaves the mountain and heads home. |
7:20 PM | Arrives home. |
10:00 PM | Goes to bed. |
Friday
Time | Location |
6:00 AM | At home. |
9:00 AM | Exits the house to visit the beach. |
11:00 AM | Stands at the end of the pier left to the Fish Shop. |
3:00 PM | Leave home to hang out at the Saloon. |
4:30 PM | Reaches the Saloon and plays pool with Sam. |
9:30 PM | Leaves the saloon and goes home. |
10:50 PM | Arrives at the farmhouse. |
Gifts
After learning about his schedule, it’ll be easier for you to give him gifts occasionally. Don’t let Winter 10 slip off your mind because that’s his special day! Here are the choices you have when picking gifts for Sebastian in Stardew Valley:
Loves | Likes | Neutrals | Dislikes | Hates |
All Universal Loves | All Universal Likes except: • Flowers • Complete Breakfast • Omelet • Farmer’s Lunch • Artisan Goods aside from Coffee, Green Tea, and Oil. | All Universal Neutrals | All Universal Dislikes besides: • Clay • Fish • Obsidian • Void Egg | All Universal Hates |
Frozen Tear | Flounder | All Fruits excluding Fruit Tree Fruits and Salmonberry. | Chanterelle | All Artisan Goods excluding goods like Coffee, Green Tea, and Oil. |
Obsidian | Quartz | All Fish except Carp, Flounder, and Snail. | Common Mushroom | All Eggs except Void Egg. |
Pumpkin Soup | All Milk | Daffodil | Farmer’s Lunch | |
Sashimi | Dandelion | Complete Breakfast | ||
Void Egg | Ginger | Clay | ||
Hazelnut | Omelet | |||
Holly | ||||
Leak | ||||
Magma Cap | ||||
Morel | ||||
Purple Mushroom | ||||
Salmonberry | ||||
Snow Yam | ||||
Wild Horseradish | ||||
Winter Root |
Movies and Concessions
Sebastian is particular in his movie preferences. Before asking him to watch a film, make sure you know his best-loved shows to gain more points with him. Here’s a list you can use to track his taste:
Loves
- It Howls in the Rain.
- Mysterium.
Likes
- Journey of the Prairie King: The Motion Picture.
- Natural Wonders: Exploring Our Vibrant World.
- Wumbus.
Dislikes
- The Brave Little Sapling.
- The Miracle of the Coldstar Ranch.
- The Zuzu City Express.
A snack from the Movie Theater also boosts your relationship with Sebastian. He likes most of them, but here are his loved and disliked items from the concessions in Stardew Valley:
Loves
- Jasmine Tea.
- Stardrop Sorbet.
Dislikes
- Black Licorice.
- Cappuccino Mousse Cake.
- JojaCola.
- Joja Corn.
- Kale Smoothie.
- Panzanella Salad.
Heart Events
After doing a great job in earning Sebastian’s trust, you can finally learn more about him through these Heart Events. As you dive deeper into his story, he may interest you better– and who knows, you might offer him a bouquet or the mermaid’s pendant afterward?
No. Of Hearts | Events |
2 | You’ll find him working on his computer once you enter his room. He’ll tell you that he’s working and ask you to wait. You’ll be given a choice to leave or stay. After waiting, you may now choose between these dialogues: • Ask him what he’s working on. • Complement his room decorations. His response to the first option is that he works as a freelance programmer. If you choose the second line, he’ll thank you and tell you that he’s been placing them there for years, not noticing that they’re already cluttered. Subsequently, his friends would also ask him to hang out, but he declines since he was busy. However, Abigail was quite persistent, which irritated him since he felt his job wasn’t seen as something serious. You may ask him either of these two things: • What are his career goals? • Why doesn’t he want to see his peers? Response #1: He’ll tell you he’ll move to the city and continue working freelance. He prefers working behind the computer instead of face-to-face. Response #2: He says he likes having friends but prefers a balanced social life. Sebastian also compares himself to Sam’s incapability of being alone for a long time. He also adds that he likes computers since they’re fun, unselfish, and more straightforward than the people he knows. Note: your response to any of these dialogues doesn’t harm your friendship in Stardew Valley. |
4 | If you visit the mountain around 11 AM to 5 PM, you’ll find him working on his motorcycle. Sebastian shares he usually takes long rides far from town. He even offers to take you for a ride with him someday. You may agree or disagree with this. Whatever you choose won’t negatively affect your relationship. |
6 | Upon entering his room, he and Sam invite you to play Solarion Chronicles: The Game. You’ll participate in a scenario wherein your scores are A and D. There are different archetypes you can choose from: • Warrior. You prefer taking a direct approach. • Healer. You prefer helping others. • Wizard. You have a sharp mind serving as a great weapon. After choosing your role, there will be instructions for playing the game. 1. Enter the front door. 2. Fight the skeleton and raise your shield. 3. Go to the left hallway and see it glowing with green light. 4. Break the capsules. 5. While in the final battle, the Warrior protects his peers and attacks the boss to end the scenario. The healer heals Sebastian to end the game. And the final role offers a Shield Charm to protect Sebastian and kill the boss. |
8 | After offering him the bouquet, you’ll find him at the beach standing by the boardwalk between noon and 11 PM. Despite the rainy weather, Sebastian tells you he’s surprised to see you outside. He also admits his anxiety towards other people and you being an exception. He then shares an umbrella with you as the cutscene ends. |
10 | Meeting him around 8 PM to midnight outside his house triggers an event wherein he invites you for a ride. He brings you to a place he often visits and gives a great view of the city. If you’re a female character, he’ll admit that he doesn’t usually take girls to this place. While if you’re a guy, he tells you how different you are and how different his feelings for you are. Consequently, he’ll take out some cigarettes. You may ask him to stop smoking, but it’ll annoy him and tell you that you’re like his mom. However, he also adds that he’ll try to stop. A few moments later, Sebastian will admit his feelings for you, and you’ll embrace each other under the full moon. |
10-Hearts Event | If you gave Alex the last bouquet, you’d trigger a cutscene at Stardew Saloon, wherein all the bachelors are playing a pool game. Make sure to have a Rabbit’s Foot with you to prevent them from finding out that you’re dating all of them. They’ll find out you’re dating them all if you don’t have it. They’ll get mad at you and ignore you for the whole week. They won’t accept any gifts from you either. Note: this won’t occur if you’ve already offered someone the pendant or got married before. |
14 | On a rainy day in the Mountain, around 6 PM to 7 PM. You’ll find Sebastian by the lake, and he tells you that a fractured frog is hiding by the bush and asks for your help. Upon successfully catching it, you may choose among these dialogues as a response: • Ask what you should do with it. • Tell him that it’s now your child. • Tell him that it won’t survive. • Suggest taking care of it. Whatever response you make, he’ll still take it home. The second part of this event occurs the next day between 6:20 AM to 7 PM. Sebastian will replace his Solarion Chronicles table with a terrarium for the frog. You may choose one among these five lines: • Ask him why he doesn’t make a frog haven. • Tell him that it’ll be fine. • Ask him why he likes frogs. • Say that you don’t want it on the farm. • Affirm that it’s great that he found a new hobby. Your approval of keeping this newly found pet doesn’t matter since he’ll keep it. You’ll occasionally see them jumping around the house. |
Aside from these exciting events, you may encounter these questions from him that can increase your points. These aren’t a part of any special cutscene, but these could help you earn more hearts:
On a Friday, Sebastian will ask you if you read books. You may tell him that you like any of the following:
- The Classics (-30 pts.)
- Sci-fi or Fantasy (+30 pts.)
- Good Romance (no effect.)
- You don’t read books (-30.)
While you may also encounter this conversation on other Fridays, he’ll ask you what you do when you’re not working. It won’t affect your relationship if you say you do more farming, but the following response may affect it:
- Read comic books (+30 pts.)
- Do some shopping (-30 pts.)
- Play sports (-30 pts.)
Marriage
If you think Sebastian is worthy of being your spouse, he’d also move out of his place after getting married. He’ll have his own space inside your home, and the stone path outside becomes a parking space for his motorcycle.
Like other candidates, he’ll offer you a few things depending on the weather and his agenda. Here are some things you may receive from him:
Stayed at Home | Rainy Days | New Year’s Eve |
Coffee | Obsidian | Beer |
Void Essence | ||
Bat Wing | ||
Frozen Tear | ||
Amethyst | ||
Cave Carrot |
Quests
Sebastian doesn’t demand a lot of things, but he may occasionally make a request on the “Help Wanted” Board. Fulfilling the request gives you 150 Friendship Points and some gold worth 3x the item’s base price. Anyway, this is the only Stardew Valley quest he belongs in.