Stardew Valley Sebastian: Schedule, Gifts, and More

Have you met Sebastian in Stardew Valley? He’s neither a friendly nor rude bachelor, but he can be pretty interesting once your relationship deepens. To win his trust learn more about his gift preferences, schedule, and more!

A player talking with Sebastian in Stardew Valley.
He’s a pretty odd bachelor.

Villagers in Pelican Town have varying personalities. And if you’ve ever come across a guy with deep blue hair, that’s Sebastian. He’s one of the 12 marriage candidates in town, and getting close to him can be challenging. 

Nonetheless, this guide can help boost your friendship points with him and find his best-loved gifts together with his story!

Who is Sebastian?

A dialogue with Sebastian in Stardew Valley.
Sebastian sounds like a businessman.

Sebastian resides at 24 Mountain Road (the Carpenter’s Shop) with his family. You’ll find his room in the basement of their home. Upon meeting him, he may seem like a rebellious loner who’s heavily invested in his work, computer games, and great sci-fi novels. 

Here’s a heads up, he’s not the friendliest bachelor. But once you know him better, you’ll eventually discover more about his soft side. 

Family and Relationships

He’s Robin’s son and Demetrius’ step-son. Unfortunately, he doesn’t have the best relationship with them, even with his half-sister, Maru. In some conversations, Sebastian indirectly hints at his jealousy towards her. Additionally, they don’t speak about his birth father, giving players no clue who he is.

Despite having a complicated bond with his family, he’s still good friends with Abigail and Sam. They belong to the same band, and you’ll often find them hanging out at the Saloon or Sam’s house in Stardew Valley. 

Moreover, if you don’t invite Sebastian or Abigail to the Flower Dance Festival, they’ll dance with each other instead. Some dialogues with Maru and Sam also imply that he’s interested in Abigail. But if you marry Abigail, he’d stop considering her as a friend and say that his only companion is Sam.

Schedule

Sebastian has a busy schedule despite being introverted. Take note that he has an appointment with Harvey every Summer 4. 

Anyhow, here’s his schedule for every season in Stardew Valley, alongside some deviations:

11th (<6 Hearts) or 15 (any Hearts)

TimeLocation
9:00 AMSpending time in his bed.
10:00 AMLeaves his bed and goes to the computer.
12:00 PMStands by the couch in his room.
5:30 PMLeaves the bedroom and heads to the kitchen.
6:30 PMDoes something on his computer.
9:30 PMGoes to bed and rests.

11th & 25th (Unlocked after earning 6+ Hearts)

TimeLocation
9:00 AMStarts the day on his bed.
10:30 AMGoes to his computer after being on his bed..
3:00 PMLeaves his computer and goes to the kitchen.
3:30 PMGoes to his room after being in the kitchen.
4:10 PMUses his computer.
6:30 PMExits their residence to smoke in the nearby lake.
7:30 PMContinues smoking near the lake.
9:30 PMGoes back to their home.

Rainy day (Option #1)

TimeLocation
9:00 AMStays in bed.
10:30 AMGets out of his room and leaves their house to visit the beach.
1:30 PMStands at the end of the long pier located to the left of the Fish Shop.
5:00 PMLeaves the pier to go home.
7:40 PMReaches his place and goes to sleep.

Rainy day (Option #2)

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his bed.
10:30 AMLeaves the mattress and goes to his computer.
3:00 PMExits their house to visit the Saloon.
5:20 PMStays by the red sofa in the Saloon’s arcade.
9:10 PMMakes his way home.
11:10 PMReaches home.  

Thursday (After unlocking the railroad)

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his bed.
10:30 AMRises from the bed to use his computer.
2:00 PMSmokes at the train station after leaving the house.
3:00 PMCarries on smoking inside the station.
6:20 PMStanding close to the tunnel, facing east toward the train station
8:10 PMWalks and stops near the tunnel to the west of the station.
9:30 PMTakes off to go home
10:20 PMArrives at his home

Friday

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his bed.
10:30 AMGets out of bed to use his computer.
3:00 PMLeaves his room to play pool with Sam in the Saloon.
5:20 PMPlays pool with Sam.
9:10 PMWalks his way home.
11:10 PMArrives at his residence.

Saturday

TimeLocation
9:00 AMLeaves their place to go to Sam’s house.
11:30 AMHangs out in front of Haley and Emily’s house with Sam.
12:30 PMFollows Sam’s steps to his bedroom.
1:00 PMSpends time in Sam’s room.
6:00 PMLeaves Sam’s place to visit the lake.
6:20 PMSmokes near the river with Sam.
7:30 PMGoing home after spending time in front of Sam’s place.
9:40 PMReaches home.

Regular Schedule

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his bedroom’s mattress.
10:30 AMGets out of bed and proceeds to use his computer.
3:00 PMStops using his computer and makes his way to the kitchen.
3:30 PMEnters his room after going to the kitchen.
4:10 PMOn his computer.
6:30 PMHe leaves his house and walks over to the lake next to it to smoke.
7:30 PMProceeds to smoke by the lake near his house.
9:30 PMGoes back inside the household

Summer 

Summer 4

TimeLocation
9:00 AMNext to a bookcase in his room.
10:00 AMDeparting from the clinic from home.
11:50 AMin the waiting area of the clinic.
1:40 PMIn the examination room of the clinic.
4:00 PMGoes home.
6:00 PMArrives at his room and goes to sleep.

11th (Occurs if you have <6 Hearts with Sebastian) and 15th (Any hearts)

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his bedroom’s mattress.
10:00 AMWalks to his computer after getting out of bed.
12:00 PMStands in his room close to the couch.
5:30 PMLeaves his room to spend time in the kitchen.
6:30 PMOn his computer.
9:30 PMGoes to bed.

11th & 25th (Encountered at 6+ Hearts)

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his bed.
10:30 AMSteps out of bed and walks toward his computer.
3:00 PMHeads to the kitchen after turning off his computer.
3:30 PMReturns to his room after leaving the kitchen.
4:10 PMOn his computer.
6:30 PMLeaves his residence and strolls to the nearby lake to smoke.
7:30 PMSmoking next to the lake where his home is.
9:30 PMReturns to his home.

Rainy Day (Option #1)

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his bed.
10:30 AMExits the house and gets out of bed to go to the beach.
1:30 PMStands to the left of Willy’s Fish Shop at the end of a long pier.
5:00 PMDeparts for home from the pier.
7:40 PMGoes to bed after getting home.

Rainy Day (Option #2)

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his mattress.
10:30 AMGets out of bed and strolls to his computer.
3:00 PMGoes outside to hang out at the Saloon.
5:20 PMStanding behind a red sofa in the saloon’s arcade.
9:10 PMLeaves for home.
11:10 PMReturns home.

Thursday (After opening the Railroad)

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his bed.
10:30 AMGoes to his computer after leaving his bed.
2:00 PMDeparts from home to smoke near the train station.
3:00 PMAt the train station, smoking.
6:20 PMStands beside the tunnel, east of the train station.
8:10 PMStands close to the tunnel, west of the train station.
9:30 PMHead home.
10:20 PMGoes back to his house.

Friday

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his bed.
10:30 AMSpends some time in bed before going to his computer.
3:00 PMDeparts from his room to join Sam at the saloon to play pool.
5:20 PMHe plays pool with Sam in the saloon.
9:10 PMGoes home.
11:10 PMReaches his house.

Saturday

TimeLocation
9:00 AMDeparts from home to visit Sam’s home.
11:30 AMWith Sam in front of Haley and Emily’s home.
12:30 PMGo to Sam’s room after him.
1:00 PMInside Sam’s room.
6:00 PMHeads to the river after leaving Sam’s home with Sam.
6:20 PMSmokes by the river near Sam’s house alongside his friend.
7:30 PMLeaving Sam’s place and heading home.
9:40 PMReturns to his home.

Regular Schedule

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his bed.
10:30 AMWalks to his computer after getting out of bed.
3:00 PMHeads to the kitchen after turning off his computer.
3:30 PMReturns to his room after leaving the kitchen.
4:10 PMOn his computer.
6:30 PMLeaves the house and strolls to the lake adjacent to it to smoke.
7:30 PMSmoking beside the lake where his house was.
9:30 PMReturns to his home.

Fall

11th (Occurs if you have <6 Hearts with him) and 15th (Any hearts)

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his bed.
10:00 AMGets out of bed and walks to his computer.
12:00 PMStands by the couch in his room.
5:30 PMLeaves his room and heads to the kitchen.
6:00 PMExits the kitchen to go back to his space.
6:30 PMOn his computer.
9:30 PMGoes to bed.

11th & 25th

You’ll encounter this schedule after earning six Friendship Hearts with him and when it’s raining.

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his bed.
10:30 AMHe rises from his bed and makes his way to the computer.
3:00 PMHeads to the kitchen after turning off his computer.
3:30 PMReturns to his room after leaving the kitchen.
4:10 PMOn his desktop computer.
6:30 PMLeaves the house and strolls to the lake adjacent to it to smoke.
7:30 PMSmoking by the lake next to his house.
9:30 PMGoes back to his house.

Rainy day (Option #1)

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his bed.
10:30 AMGets out of the mattress and leaves the house to visit the beach.
1:30 PMStanding at the end of the long pier found on the left of the fish shop.
5:00 PMDeparts from the pier and goes home.
7:40 PMComes home and takes a rest.

Rainy day (Option #2)

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his bed.
10:30 AMRises from the mattress and moves to the computer.
3:00 PMExits the house to go to the Saloon.
5:20 PMStands by the red sofa in the arcade of the Saloon.
9:10 PMTakes a walk back to his place.
11:10 PMReaches to their household.

Thursday (Only encountered after getting access to the Railroad)

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his bed.
10:30 AMGets out of the mattress and transfers himself to his computer.
2:00 PMMakes plans of smoking in the nearby station after leaving the house.
3:00 PMBegins to smoke at the station.
6:20 PMStays at the eastern side of the station close to the tunnel.
8:10 PMStands west of the station near the tunnel.
9:30 PMHeads to his place.
10:20 PMArrives at their residence.

Friday

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his mattress.
10:30 AMGets out of the mattress and shifts to his computer.
3:00 PMLeaves his space to go enjoy a game of pool with Sam in the Saloon.
5:20 PMContinues playing the game with Sam.
9:10 PMHeads back to their house.
11:10 PMGets home successfully.

Saturday

TimeLocation
9:00 AMGoes off to Sam’s place.
11:30 AMPasses time in front of Haley and Emily’s house with Sam.
12:30 PMWalks to Sam’s room.
1:00 PMHangs out in his friend’s space.
6:00 PMLeaves the house with Sam.
6:20 PMPuffs cigarette in the river with Sam.
7:30 PMMakes his way home after departing from his friend’s house.
9:40 PMArrives to their place.

Regular Schedule

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his bed.
10:30 AMGets out of the mattress and moves to his computer.
12:00 PMLeaves the house and takes a stroll to the lake close to his home.
2:00 PMGoes to the section of the lake outside the Mines opening.
3:00 PMLeaves the mining site’s entrance and heads to the other side of the lake.
3:30 PMSmokes at the edge of the lake near the bridge.
4:00 PMReturns home to his kitchen.
5:30 PMLeaves his kitchen.
6:00 PMOn his computer.
9:30 PMLeaves his computer and goes to rest.

Winter

 Winter 16

TimeLocation
10:30 AMWakes up and goes to his computer.
3:00 PMLeaves the room and makes his way to the kitchen.
3:40 PMEnters his room and uses his computer
5:00 PMLeaves his home and attends the Night Market.
11:30 PMLeaves Market to go back to his place.

11th (Occurs with than 6 hearts with Sebastian) and 15th (Any hearts)

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his mattress.
10:00 AMRises from the bed and goes to his computer.
12:00 PMIn his room, standing by the couch.
5:30 PMLeaving his room to go to the kitchen.
6:30 PMOn his computer.
9:30 PMGoes to sleep.

11th & 25th (Earned six or more hearts with Sebastian)

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his bed.
10:30 AMGets off the mattress and shifts to his computer.
3:00 PMLeaves his computer and goes to the kitchen.
3:30 PMExits the kitchen and enters his room.
4:10 PMOn his computer.
6:30 PMLeaves home and walks to the lake nearby to smoke.
7:30 PMSmoking by the lake close to his house.
9:30 PMGoes back to his place.

Rainy day (option #1)

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his mattress.
10:30 AMLeaves the house after getting out of bed to relax at the beach.
1:30 PMStands at the end of the pier left to the Fish Shop.
5:00 PMLeaves the port to return home
7:40 PMArrives home and goes to sleep.

Rainy day (option #2)

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his bed.
10:30 AMMoves away from the bed to go to his computer
3:00 PMLeaves the house to relax at the Saloon.
5:20 PMStands by the red sofa in the Saloon’s arcade.
9:10 PMWalks his way home.
11:10 PMArrives at their residence.

Thursday (Encountered after opening the Railroad)

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his bed.
10:30 AMMoves away from the bed to go to his computer.
2:00 PMExits the household to smoke at the nearby train station.
3:00 PMSmoking by the station.
6:20 PMStanding at the eastern side of the train station, by the tunnel.
8:10 PMStanding to the western area of the train station, by a tunnel.
9:30 PMHeads back to his place.
10:20 PMArrives home.

Friday

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his bed.
10:30 AMWakes up and marches to his computer.
3:00 PMHe leaves his room to go play pool with Sam at the Saloon.
5:20 PMPlays pool with Sam.
9:10 PMGets back to his house.
11:10 PMArrives home.

Saturday

TimeLocation
9:00 AMLeaves their residence to keep company with Sam.
11:30 AMSpends time in front of Haley and Emily’s house with Sam.
12:30 PMGoes after Sam on his way to his room.
1:00 PMIn Sam’s space.
6:00 PMLeaves Sam’s residence and goes to the river.
6:20 PMTogether with Sam, he smokes nearby the river where his friend lives.
7:30 PMGoes home after departing from Sam’s place.
9:40 PMGets home.

Regular Schedule

TimeLocation
9:00 AMIn his bed.
10:30 AMGets away from the bed to use the computer.
3:00 PMLeaves his computer and makes his way to the kitchen.
3:30 PMGoes back to his room after going to the kitchen..
4:10 PMSpends time on his computer.
6:30 PMLeaves home to smoke outside.
7:30 PMPuffs smoke near his house..
9:30 PMCome back to his residence.

Marriage

Monday

TimeLocation
6:00 AMAt home.
9:00 AMLeaves home to go to the mountains.
9:30 AMTakes a stroll in the Town Square.
10:30 AMGets to his old hang-out spot at the mountain lake.
1:00 PMLeaves the Farm to visit Robin.
5:20 PMLeaves the mountain and heads home.
7:20 PMArrives home.
10:00 PMGoes to bed.

Friday

TimeLocation
6:00 AMAt home.
9:00 AMExits the house to visit the beach.
11:00 AMStands at the end of the pier left to the Fish Shop.
3:00 PMLeave home to hang out at the Saloon.
4:30 PMReaches the Saloon and plays pool with Sam.
9:30 PMLeaves the saloon and goes home.
10:50 PMArrives at the farmhouse.

Gifts

Sebastian's reaction to receiving something he loves in Stardew Valley.
Do you want to see Sebastian’s smile?

After learning about his schedule, it’ll be easier for you to give him gifts occasionally. Don’t let Winter 10 slip off your mind because that’s his special day! Here are the choices you have when picking gifts for Sebastian in Stardew Valley:

LovesLikesNeutralsDislikesHates
All Universal LovesAll Universal Likes except:
• Flowers
• Complete Breakfast
• Omelet
• Farmer’s Lunch
• Artisan Goods aside from Coffee, Green Tea, and Oil.
All Universal NeutralsAll Universal Dislikes besides:
• Clay
• Fish
• Obsidian
• Void Egg
All Universal Hates
Frozen TearFlounderAll Fruits excluding Fruit Tree Fruits and Salmonberry.ChanterelleAll Artisan Goods excluding goods like Coffee, Green Tea, and Oil.
ObsidianQuartzAll Fish except Carp, Flounder, and Snail.Common MushroomAll Eggs except Void Egg.
Pumpkin SoupAll MilkDaffodilFarmer’s Lunch
SashimiDandelionComplete Breakfast
Void EggGingerClay
HazelnutOmelet
Holly
Leak
Magma Cap
Morel
Purple Mushroom
Salmonberry
Snow Yam
Wild Horseradish
Winter Root

Movies and Concessions

Sebastian is particular in his movie preferences. Before asking him to watch a film, make sure you know his best-loved shows to gain more points with him. Here’s a list you can use to track his taste:

Loves

  • It Howls in the Rain.
  • Mysterium.

Likes

  • Journey of the Prairie King: The Motion Picture.
  • Natural Wonders: Exploring Our Vibrant World.
  • Wumbus.

Dislikes

  • The Brave Little Sapling.
  • The Miracle of the Coldstar Ranch.
  • The Zuzu City Express.

A snack from the Movie Theater also boosts your relationship with Sebastian. He likes most of them, but here are his loved and disliked items from the concessions in Stardew Valley:

Loves

  • Jasmine Tea.
  • Stardrop Sorbet.

Dislikes

  • Black Licorice.
  • Cappuccino Mousse Cake.
  • JojaCola.
  • Joja Corn.
  • Kale Smoothie.
  • Panzanella Salad.

Heart Events

A player's friendship hearts with Sebastian in Stardew Valley.
Upgrade your status with him by offering these special items!

After doing a great job in earning Sebastian’s trust, you can finally learn more about him through these Heart Events. As you dive deeper into his story, he may interest you better– and who knows, you might offer him a bouquet or the mermaid’s pendant afterward?

No. Of HeartsEvents
2You’ll find him working on his computer once you enter his room. He’ll tell you that he’s working and ask you to wait. You’ll be given a choice to leave or stay. After waiting, you may now choose between these dialogues:

• Ask him what he’s working on. 
• Complement his room decorations.

His response to the first option is that he works as a freelance programmer. If you choose the second line, he’ll thank you and tell you that he’s been placing them there for years, not noticing that they’re already cluttered.

Subsequently, his friends would also ask him to hang out, but he declines since he was busy. However, Abigail was quite persistent, which irritated him since he felt his job wasn’t seen as something serious.

You may ask him either of these two things:

• What are his career goals?
• Why doesn’t he want to see his peers?

Response #1: He’ll tell you he’ll move to the city and continue working freelance. He prefers working behind the computer instead of face-to-face.

Response #2: He says he likes having friends but prefers a balanced social life. Sebastian also compares himself to Sam’s incapability of being alone for a long time. He also adds that he likes computers since they’re fun, unselfish, and more straightforward than the people he knows.

Note: your response to any of these dialogues doesn’t harm your friendship in Stardew Valley.
4If you visit the mountain around 11 AM to 5 PM, you’ll find him working on his motorcycle. Sebastian shares he usually takes long rides far from town. He even offers to take you for a ride with him someday. 

You may agree or disagree with this. Whatever you choose won’t negatively affect your relationship.
6Upon entering his room, he and Sam invite you to play Solarion Chronicles: The Game. You’ll participate in a scenario wherein your scores are A and D. There are different archetypes you can choose from:

Warrior. You prefer taking a direct approach.
Healer. You prefer helping others.
Wizard. You have a sharp mind serving as a great weapon.

After choosing your role, there will be instructions for playing the game.  
1. Enter the front door.
2. Fight the skeleton and raise your shield.
3. Go to the left hallway and see it glowing with green light.
4. Break the capsules.
5. While in the final battle, the Warrior protects his peers and attacks the boss to end the scenario. The healer heals Sebastian to end the game. And the final role offers a Shield Charm to protect Sebastian and kill the boss.
8After offering him the bouquet, you’ll find him at the beach standing by the boardwalk between noon and 11 PM. 

Despite the rainy weather, Sebastian tells you he’s surprised to see you outside.  He also admits his anxiety towards other people and you being an exception. He then shares an umbrella with you as the cutscene ends.
10Meeting him around 8 PM to midnight outside his house triggers an event wherein he invites you for a ride. He brings you to a place he often visits and gives a great view of the city.

If you’re a female character, he’ll admit that he doesn’t usually take girls to this place. While if you’re a guy, he tells you how different you are and how different his feelings for you are.

Consequently, he’ll take out some cigarettes. You may ask him to stop smoking, but it’ll annoy him and tell you that you’re like his mom. However, he also adds that he’ll try to stop.

A few moments later, Sebastian will admit his feelings for you, and you’ll embrace each other under the full moon.
10-Hearts Event If you gave Alex the last bouquet, you’d trigger a cutscene at Stardew Saloon, wherein all the bachelors are playing a pool game.

Make sure to have a Rabbit’s Foot with you to prevent them from finding out that you’re dating all of them. They’ll find out you’re dating them all if you don’t have it.
They’ll get mad at you and ignore you for the whole week. They won’t accept any gifts from you either.

Note: this won’t occur if you’ve already offered someone the pendant or got married before.
14On a rainy day in the Mountain, around 6 PM to 7 PM. You’ll find Sebastian by the lake, and he tells you that a fractured frog is hiding by the bush and asks for your help.
Upon successfully catching it, you may choose among these dialogues as a response:

• Ask what you should do with it.
• Tell him that it’s now your child.
• Tell him that it won’t survive.
• Suggest taking care of it.

Whatever response you make, he’ll still take it home. The second part of this event occurs the next day between 6:20 AM to 7 PM.

Sebastian will replace his Solarion Chronicles table with a terrarium for the frog. You may choose one among these five lines:

• Ask him why he doesn’t make a frog haven.
• Tell him that it’ll be fine.
• Ask him why he likes frogs.
• Say that you don’t want it on the farm.
• Affirm that it’s great that he found a new hobby.

Your approval of keeping this newly found pet doesn’t matter since he’ll keep it. You’ll occasionally see them jumping around the house.

Aside from these exciting events, you may encounter these questions from him that can increase your points. These aren’t a part of any special cutscene, but these could help you earn more hearts:

On a Friday, Sebastian will ask you if you read books. You may tell him that you like any of the following:  

  • The Classics (-30 pts.)
  • Sci-fi or Fantasy (+30 pts.)
  • Good Romance (no effect.)
  • You don’t read books (-30.)

While you may also encounter this conversation on other Fridays, he’ll ask you what you do when you’re not working. It won’t affect your relationship if you say you do more farming, but the following response may affect it:

  • Read comic books (+30 pts.)
  • Do some shopping (-30 pts.)
  • Play sports (-30 pts.)

Marriage

Sebastian's room in your farmhouse in Stardew Valley.
Here’s his comfort zone in your Farmhouse.

If you think Sebastian is worthy of being your spouse, he’d also move out of his place after getting married. He’ll have his own space inside your home, and the stone path outside becomes a parking space for his motorcycle.

Like other candidates, he’ll offer you a few things depending on the weather and his agenda. Here are some things you may receive from him:

Stayed at HomeRainy DaysNew Year’s Eve
CoffeeObsidianBeer
Void Essence
Bat Wing
Frozen Tear
Amethyst
Cave Carrot

Quests

Sebastian doesn’t demand a lot of things, but he may occasionally make a request on the “Help Wanted” Board. Fulfilling the request gives you 150 Friendship Points and some gold worth 3x the item’s base price. Anyway, this is the only Stardew Valley quest he belongs in.

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